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I am a single mother of four fantastic boys. I have a 4 year old, a 7 year old and a 11 year old and a 2 month old. Being a single mom of 4 does not allow for much time for anything else. I do enjoy getting together with my girlfriends and we try to get together once a week. When we do get together we like to play spades and other card games. I also am on a lifetime seach for the perfect man which I had recentley found does not exsist.

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Wednesday, April 19, 2006

So I have made a decision

I am not dating anymore! That's it I am done with that whole scene. I refuse to have my heart trampled on again by a man and so I am not going to date anymore. It is to hard now a days to figure out who is real and who is just playing games. I think that they must teach guys this shit in high school. "How to use and abuse women 101". I must have slept through the "how to spot a loser" class. See I think one of my biggest problems is that I always want to believe the best in a person male or female. I always want to think that there is good in them when maybe there just isn't. I have a huge heart and want to try to be there for everyone else and in the end who is there for me? Me oh my does this sound like a poor pity me session or what? I did not mean for it to be. I mean believe me I know my friends and family love me and lord knows I love them. Its not about that though. I have spent to much of my time looking for love and I am just fed up! So until further notice I am off the market!


link | Tonya posted at 10:37 PM |


3 Comments:
Blogger GAB commented at 9:07 AM~  

and right about now some poor sap is saying the same thing about women. Stop trying so hard and stop trying to be married by the time your 30 and it will happen. Yeah I know who wants to listen to their moms? what do they know anyways?

Anonymous Anonymous commented at 3:16 PM~  

Hi just do you what you like to do and the right guy will find you or so they say --from one who has quit looking too!!!

Suzzie

Anonymous Anonymous commented at 12:57 PM~  

i hate to say this but gab and suzzie are right if you are ment to find someone quit looking.
i have told this to single friends and they did it and low and behold someone comes along looking for just the right woman and there you are.
it works just try it but don't set a time limit on it either that doesn't work either.
just be yourself don't be looking let them come to you.
yes it can be frustrating because it seems like it will never happen but it will right now you are trying way to hard and finding all the guys who act like little boys and don't want any responsibility. usually they are the ones around your own age.
so just try this no time limit and see what happens.

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