Ok what is the deal with guys? That's really what I want to know. Ok so you meet a guy and everything seems to go well. You flirt exchange numbers and so on and so forth. Then it's days later and he still has not called you so you get up the courage to call him yourself. You pick up the phone 8 times trying to get the nerve to actually call his number then when you do you get his voicemail. *Sigh* Ok so you leave him a message telling him that you were just calling to say hello and to call you back when he has time. And maybe that's the mistake right there. Maybe he never has time. Because days and days go by and no call. Then when you have finally given up on the fact that you will ever hear from him (5 days later) he calls. You ignore it letting it go to vociemail cuz turn around is fair play right? Well that and you don't want to look as desperate as you are feeling. And he does not even have the courtesy to leave you a message. So this creates a whole list of other thoughts in you head; do you call him back again; just pretend that he did not call at all and see if he calls again or what? Then if you are anything like me you think about this for quite a while. You call two of your closes female friends and ask their advice and then you even talk to a couple of your guy friends to get their opinion on the subject. After all this you have to be thinking" IS IT REALLY WORTH IT"? I miss the days when a guy would chase after me. I know I know equal rights and all and that's all fine and dandy with most things. When it comes to dating I want to know that he is interested without all this worry and work.

Can anyone tell me why he just can't say he's interested or that he is not interested? I mean I'm to old for games.